Saturday, March 19, 2022
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Saturday, March 12, 2022
Family Historians Must Talk About the Memories
Today's blog wasn't my intended topic but as the week evolved, I felt the need to write about recent laws in my state (and maybe yours!) that matter to family historians and genealogists.
Long-time readers know my first career was as an educator; I retired as a Public School Counselor last August. My paternal grandmother taught briefly in Ohio before her marriage. My husband is also a retired educator. His great grandfather was a lifelong teacher and principal in rural Indiana. Although not educators, my Leininger line certainly valued education as they built their house across the Indiana-Ohio state line for the purpose of being able to have a choice option of where to send their children to school. Even back in the day school funding was problematic so when one district had cuts, they simply moved their belongings to the other side of the house and enrolled in the other school district. A novel way to ensure their children were well educated.
I am in favor of the community having a voice in schools and that schools are critical for a region's future success.
This week, the Florida legislature passed two bills that affect schools. The first allows parents to sue teachers if school personnel "instructs" a student in third grade or under on sexual orientation. On the surface, you might think that discussion isn't age-appropriate. Children notice EVERYTHING and they ask for information when they don't understand something. What is a teacher supposed to say when a kid asks why does Jack has two mommies or two daddies? I always replied, "Because each family is different which is what makes them so special." I can see that today, a parent with an agenda might take that statement to the court.
Here's why I gave that reply to my elementary students . . . When I was their age I was the only child with divorced parents in my parochial school. Not until I was in 6th grade did another child with divorced parents enroll. Pre-Vatican II divorce was a serious offense by Roman Catholic Church standards. We learned that in religion class. I was penalized because my father never came to school functions - the PTA awarded points for parents who attended monthly meetings. Moms got 1 point and dad's got 5 points. A dad only had to show up once a year and the mom every other meeting to exceed my mother's perfect attendance number. In May, any student who had parent participation above a certain number would get an ice cream treat. I never got one.
Those were painful times. I thought the world had changed towards acceptance of differences but in my state, we're slipping backward. Instead, the governor embarrased responsible high school students because their belief system is different than his. But that's not all that's happening in Florida.
Teacher training on diversity is being canceled and teacher lessons that imply someone is responsible for actions “committed in the past by other members of the same race, color, sex, or national origin.” that makes a student feel uncomfortable is forbidden. Again, parents can sue the teacher for the lesson. Here's my problem with this. I've blogged about the KKK targeting my maternal grandparents. I'm white and obviously, the KKK hoodlums were white. A parent not liking my lesson or blog can sue me for telling the truth about the past! The law doesn't protect the victims but the perpetrators. My mother's trauma as a child enduring the long night she thought she would die is irrelevant in Florida because we don't want to hurt the feelings of a white child today whose ancestor may have been responsible.
My family is far from perfect and I've written about my own ancestor, Daniel Hollingshead, who upped his social standing at the expense of others. I'm not proud to have an ancestor who was complicit and tolerant of his second wife who had inherited enslaved people.
We must remember the past, the good, the bad, and the ugly, or we haven't learned the lessons. Suing is not the way to deal with uncomfortable topics. My former school district has had nearly 9% of its teachers resign in the past year. How many more will be driven out because they can no longer speak the truth?
Weekly I volunteer at my local train depot museum. The building has two doors; built-in 1909 the law was Separate but Equal. The title of the law was half correct - the facility was separated by race but it was anything but equal. People of color had to share one small restroom while white people had larger, separate facilities. Whites had heat on their side of the wall and a larger ticket window. Their space was also much larger. Equal? Nope! Unbelievably, the building remained separated until Amtrack shut it down in the late 1970s. The law may have been off the books but its effect lingered much longer.
That's not the only place the law lingered. As a teen, I worked for the City of St. Petersburg. In City Hall was a racist mural and the water coolers had painted above "whites" and "colored." I had learned about Jim Crow laws in U.S. History class in the north but it never occurred to me that a visible reminder remained in my lifetime. When I questioned it of my director, her response was "You're a carpetbagger; you wouldn't understand." She was entirely correct.
That's not the only place the law lingered. As a teen, I worked for the City of St. Petersburg. In City Hall was a racist mural and the water coolers had painted above "whites" and "colored." I had learned about Jim Crow laws in U.S. History class in the north but it never occurred to me that a visible reminder remained in my lifetime. When I questioned it of my director, her response was "You're a carpetbagger; you wouldn't understand." She was entirely correct. I've lived in my county for 50 years and I still don't understand people refusing to accept differences and acknowledge the mistakes of the past.
If the schools aren't going to be able to do the job then we, as the remembers, must step up and speak out. I'd be interested to know how you take on the challenge.
Saturday, March 5, 2022
Rootstech 2022-Last Day!
Saturday, February 26, 2022
Heirloom Preservation
Friday, February 18, 2022
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Saturday, February 12, 2022
Thinking About DNA Differently
Often we get stuck in a mindset, for better or worse. I had two DNA conversations this week that helped me broaden my thinking about DNA.
First, I've had one of those weeks where everything tech-wise decided to stop operating. Consequently, I spent time on the phone with an IT person who was trying to get an account to accept my password. In the course of our conversation, he asked me what my business was about and as I described what a genealogist does, he said I had reminded him that he needed to upload his DNA results for his primary care physician. Wow, I hadn't realized that primary care doctors were now taking results from the big DNA organizations!
Now for the divergent thinking part of the story - I asked where he tested and he said 23andMe; he that he was SHOCKED that they knew of his close relationship with his aunt. She was his FAVORITE relative and they shared interests and food preferences. He had no idea that the company would understand how close emotionally he felt to her.
I paused to find the right words. I explained they didn't know how he felt but they knew how her genes compared to his genes and the "close" relationship meant genetically and not emotionally.
The following day a couple brought their adorable mutt into our local historical society for a tour. Yes, leashed behaved pets are allowed. This was the cutest pup I've ever seen. A colleague asked if they knew what breeds he was and the response surprised me - they had his DNA done and he was schnauzer, poodle, shih tzu, and shepherd. I've been dogless for a few years now; I had no idea you could have your dog tested.
DNA sure has come a long way in a short time!
Saturday, February 5, 2022
Genealogy Education
The weather outside appears to be frightful for much of the U.S. and parts of Europe, so my dear readers, nothing like cozying up with your tech device and working your brain muscles to learn additional tips and tricks genealogy-wise.
I live in an area that has the largest Greek population outside of Greece; if you don't and are of Greek heritage you might think your ancestor hunt is a dead end. Think again! Last weekend the Tarpon Springs Public Library held its 2nd Greek Genealogy Conference. No worries that you missed it - it's available, handouts and all, on YouTube.
I have to share this story from Tuesday. . . I volunteer at my local hospital which is in the process of renovating. There is a very calming beach scene mural that was placed on the wall in the family waiting area. A woman got off the elevator and gasped. I asked if I could help and she just stared, pointing at the mural. She replied, "That's the view from my home in Greece!" She then showed me a pic her husband had texted her that morning of the snowfall. Yep, same buildings as in the mural with a light dusting of snow. Definitely a small world!
The National Genealogical Conference registration is now open with a DISCOUNT for their May 24-28, 2002 Family History Conference in Sacramento, California. Your options are to select in-person, virtual, or on-demand so you can view lectures later in the summer. Check out their catalog here. I'm thrilled that there are options available as I love attending but am not yet comfortable with traveling there in May.
MyHeritage.com has introduced a 40 lesson Intro to Genealogy course that takes about 5 hours to complete; you don't have to do it in one sitting. I haven't taken it myself but as soon as I'm done with my scanning project (sigh) I plan to take a look at it.
Speaking of scanning, I had two wonderful comments to my last week's blog that I need to share. Bob recommended that I also save my digitized photos to an external hard drive. He is so right!
Speaking of scanning, I had two wonderful comments to my last week's blog that I need to share. Bob recommended that I also save my digitized photos to an external hard drive. He is so right! Randy reminded me that MyHeritage.com has awesome photo software to enhance your old photos. It also just happens to be free through tomorrow. Check it out here if you're not a member. Thanks, Randy, I sadly discovered my wedding album is fading. Luckily, I did scan those photos years ago but I do have some other photos that could use a facelift. I plan on using those features once I'm done.
MyHeritage has also had some changes to how you can view their historical records, now in a table view. Check out their blog article about it.
Let's not forget that we, as a genealogy community, are great sources of educating each other. I was contacted on Ancestry.com by my 7th great step-cousin last week on my Hollingshead line. We were discussing her 7th great-grandmother's will and I shared how surprised I originally was when I saw she had bequeathed her slaves to one of her children. Step-mom lived in New Jersey from about 1720 to 1771. Cousin recommended a good read that her local genealogical society had recommended when she shared the will with them. It's available on Amazon and I selected the Kindle download for Elaine Buck and Beverly Mills If These Stones Could Talk: African American Presence in the Hopewell Valley, Sourland Mountain and the Surrounding Regions of New Jersey. It is a fascinating read and timely for Black History Month!
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