I've been so busy with the home renovations that I failed to supply the link to a recent blog that I posted for AncestorCloud. Developing a Positive Seeker Helper Relationship is a "how to" for effectively collaborating with others as you build your family tree.
AncestorCloud calls the folks who are in need of a record "Seekers" and those that assist as "Helpers." Working with family members you may share both of those roles. Whatever responsibility you assume, the hunt is much more productive when the parties involved are together on the approach.